Features Relationships. Culture Features Scoop. A friend of mine was visiting and we were having the usual men gossip when she said:. But besides the persistent increase in domestic violence and rape, there is also the case of diminished bride price. No parent wants their daughter to be paid lesser than the original fair value simply because Oga bobo has already had a taste of the apple pie.
But the case seems to differ when the relationship is a long distance one. Oga bobo is finally in town and you are telling Sister Mary that she should not sleep over. She would just look at you as if you smoked something. Inasmuch as I agree somehow, I still disagree o. It is true that nothing might happen depending on the circumstances surrounding the sleeping over.
On the other hand, it could be that Brother Man had really had some serious Holy Ghost intervention and the angels of the lord had appeared boldly to him on your behalf to tell him not to touch you. Even with that, it would still take the entire restrain in the world for him not toโฆ unless there is no attraction whatsoever. It is said that our generation has moved from just the wooing facets in relationship.
The waters, they say, must somehow be tested before it can be swum; and there are many theories that support this. These theories even go as far as insisting that even though intimacy is the most least-talked-about in relationships, it is no doubt the most crucial especially in marriages. The only way one can really get to find out if his or her instrument is working properly and effectively is to sleep over. It is said that sleeping over helps in many ways to truly get to know a person besides sexual intimacy.
The proponents of this notion actually argue that a person is more themselves at home, than when they are out there in the dating world posing like the Mr. Imagine sleeping over and you discover that your boo still curls up like a baby and sucks his thumb, or that he farts uncontrollably in his sleep.
