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If you would like to use material from the book other than for review purposes , prior written permission must be obtained by contacting the publisher at permissions hbgusa. To our year-old former selves, and to Bishop, Atalanta, and all the sons and daughters who deserve the great relationships we want for them.
Not when it comes to sex and dating and women, anyway. What did I say? Your primal brain expected to find itself in a sexual culture with fun mating rituals and a decent chance of finding a girlfriend after puberty. As it should have. That kind of sexual culture had been the huntergatherer norm for hundreds of thousands of years. Unfortunately, you never got any of that good stuff your ancestors got. No, you got fed a bunch of bullshit by parents, priests, professors, and politicians trying to tell you what to do, usually in service of some kind of selfish agenda that had nothing to do with your health, happiness, or mating success.
Human females, like all clever creatures, choose their mates according to certain criteria and preferences. In biology, this process is called female choice. Your only option is to accept it and embrace it. You have to fit their mate choice criteria. If you pay attention and follow alongβif you work on becoming a great guy who can offer the things women instinctively wantβyou will be happier, and women will be happier with you.
Everyone wins. We built it from the ground up to serve your needs. It even originated in the dating failures of guys like you. At a Thanksgiving dinner, Geoff was hanging out with some of his male cousinsβtypical young American guys in high school or college, mostly without girlfriends. The cousins had never heard about any of that stuff. Some were fundamentalist, some were atheist; some were young Republicans; some were liberal hipsters.
