It has been barely four weeks and this dude had the courage to ask me for money to help him pay rent and I said to myself "But I'm not a sponsor" and now it seems like he will not talk to me anymore because I said no. So first of all, how did the one night stand turn into nights at his house? This seems to be the first complication.
Do you actually like the guy and you're telling yourself that you don't, and so the 'one night stand' was a way to get your foot in the door? And then, he's asking for money to pay rent, which seems desperate. Maybe he is desperate, because he would have to be to ask you, an irregular visitor, to contribute to his upkeep.
Perhaps he feels like since you've been there a lot then he can ask for money, but if he hadn't been sleeping with you, what exactly was his plan to pay his rent? That seems strange. The guy is in a strange situation. If your heart moves you out of sympathy, feel free to contribute a little, but don't go back. You didn't overreact.
That request was unfounded, and he's being a child by not talking to you for saying no. What else will he overreact about that you will inevitably say no to? You don't need that kind of negativity in your life. Related Stories. Feedback For webmasters. Periodicals Literature. Keyword Title Author Topic. Next Article: Lempurkel has case to answer, Nanyuki court rules.
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