This site is based on my own experiences and intended as a general guidline in the spirit of personal growth. Playing deep is an Extreme Sport with inherent risks. As always, it is up to you to determine what is good for your own body and to take from this information what you choose. Generally, one finds the journey into depth play begins after becoming comfortable with big toys or fisting and those deeper nerve centers begin to get triggered. There is some work you can and should do on your own before attempting to take a fist for the first time.
Multiple challenges must be overcome to make the experience enjoyable, if even possible, for you and your partner. Developing an ability to relax through deep breathing and focus will go a long way to helping you accomplish your goal. It can play an important role when exploring depth. I find I have the most control and ability to relax just kneeling and sitting back on a toy, although this position can make relaxing simultaneously a challenge.
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Being on all fours helps me to relax and drops my insides and opens them up at the same time, though controlling a toy becomes difficult. Playing deep can evoke feelings of discomfort or pleasure depending your level and care to avoid injury. The Pubo-Rectal sling second sphincter is a loop of muscle that in its natural state, holds the lower intestine up to create the boundary between the rectum and the sigmoid.
In essence, when you have a bowel movement it will relax and allow everything to straighten out for elimination. So the challenge with depth play is to learn to allow it to relax and straighten at will so things can pass through more easily. This would indeed explain the intense feelings of pleasure or discomfort that I encounter when playing at about inches deep. The Smooth Longneck was developed as a way to condition your mind to take a fist deeper.
As it was when you began your journey into fisting, you now have the added challenge of learning to connect with the muscles in your pelvic floor in order to relax them through mental focus. The head of the Longneck is shaped like a hand in tuck position with a tip set slightly off center. These design elements replicate the way a hand feels, but on a smaller scale, so as to begin to train your mind to be able to accept this presence as a source of potential pleasure.
