A lot more these days. As unicorn hunting makes its entrance into mainstream lexicon, let us remind ourselves that it is still a delicate practice with a lot of variables to consider. A unicorn can be any gender. Typically, a unicorn is referring to a bi-sexual woman who is open to having sex with a couple.
Following these guidelines will help you avoid the pitfalls of finding a third. Ahhhβ¦the age old question I see countless times from couples seeking their first threesome. Or are you looking for NSA fun? Odds are if you know kinky or sex positive couples, you might be able to network your way to some potential unicorns. It might sound a bit clinical, but word of mouth is still a great tool of the trade!
Jumping into this world can lead to you to a larger pool of pre-qualified unicorns, since most who show up at those events are already showing they might be interested in hooking up with a couple. The tried and true method tends to be dating apps. Tinder, as well as Bumble, have been used for this purpose, but I have heard Feeld is a great way to find a third. There is a new app coming on the market called Zin, which offers more of a Craigslist-style post approach, allowing you to place a specific post describing what kind of unicorn you are looking for.
Imagine how you like to be pursued. Do you like to be aggressively hounded? Do you want someone to be honest and forthcoming, or manipulative and veiled? Keep these tips in mind when approaching a potential third:. Be upfront about why you are reaching out to them. You should let them know in the first or second message what you are looking for β and be honest without being too blunt.
Not cool. Be cool and be sexy!! Try to make a good impression like you would on any date. Ask them questions about themselves and what they are looking for.
