From the title of this article you may have assumed that you would find a list of specific toys that are great for beginners. However, since I like to keep readers on their toes β that is not exactly what you are going to get. I will reference specific toys of course β but the list is written with a broader stroke of the brush. In my opinion your hands are the best implements you have.
They are also quite convenient β no need to remember to pack them or find space for them. Although cleaning is still essential! Lol You can do so many things with them β spanking, punching, pinching, tickling, squeezing, pressure points, scratching, massage, hair pulling, face slappingβ¦. They can be used in a sensual way, for sexual touch, light to heavy, thuddy, or stingy.
This is especially true when a toy has flexibility. For floggers this could mean shorter falls, shorter handle, or both. Shorter crops or straps with more handle than body.
Even with standard handle floggers you can hold the top of the handle closest to the falls rather than the end or middle of the handle. Use things to create different sensations. Use things like feathers, wartenberg wheels, fur, water, ice, etc. These are wonderful to use in scenes whether you are leaning on them to make up for skill level or if you are a very experienced player!
For temperature play, besides using water at different temps and ice, you can also take toys or things made of metal and put them in the fridge so that for the scene they are nice and chilly. Just pressing them against skin that is freshly played with can create a lovely reaction! Try to avoid toys that can break the skin. If you use vampire gloves for sensation β be careful about using them for impact.
